Dealing with Anxiety

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For years I had bouts of ‘weird attacks’ not knowing what it was! Some times I would get an attack out of the blue: my throat would tighten, I would get a choking sensation, feel hot and sweaty, my field of vision would narrow, I would get the shakes and just generally feel horrendous![/box]

I suffered with these attacks for most of my life and never really told anyone, I became really good at hiding it and adopted my own personal home-made precautions like making sure I always had a bottle of water and chewing gum at hand for the throat and nausea thing.  I also made sure I could get outside (quickly) if I needed to and did my best to recognise when it might happen.

But it wasn’t until I got into my mid 20s and after numerous trips to the doctors that I was diagnosed with having panic attacks and anxiety issues! When I was told I responded with a “Who me?! panic attack?! never!” I’m an outgoing, confident, no-non-sense kind of person so I was surprised to learn that there wasn’t a more serious physical problem at hand.

But all things said and done, the thing that helped me the most was realising that YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DIE! Sounds simple but I guess in the back of mind I really thought some thing bad was going to happen!  For example if I was on the train and I started to feel  strange’ and a bit sick and it helped me to realise that although unpleasant, being sick on the train is NOT the end of the world! And I was certainly not going to keel over and die in the supermarket if my throat tightened.

Sounds strange but if someone asked me if I suffered with stress I would probably say no! I tend not to feel stress directly, it tends to manifest itself in a panic attack or through my stomach by way of stomach upset or nausea.  Knowledge is king, so get to know yourself! I learned to pay attention  and recognise my triggers.

Sounds silly but I also found that avoiding certain foods and caffeine helped enormously!  When I limited my intake of foods high in wheat, dairy and coffee I not only felt less bloated, I also felt calmer and more focused!

Exercising also really helped, it helped me to feel rested.  Working off all the nervous energy also had a great side effect! I looked more toned and felt much better about myself!  Its odd but all those things add up to make you feel more robust and better equipped to deal with what ever life throws at you!

Not sure if you what you’re experiencing is an anxiety related issue? Check out the list of symptoms below!

  • Increased heart rate
  • Increased muscle tension
  • “Jelly legs”
  • Tingling in the hands and feet
  • Hyperventilation (over breathing)
  • Dizziness
  • Difficulty in breathing
  • Wanting to use the toilet more often
  • Feeling sick
  • Tight band across the chest area
  • Tension headaches
  • Hot flushes
  • Increased perspiration
  • Dry mouth
  • Shaking
  • Choking sensations
  • Palpitations

Some of the most common psychological symptoms (the thoughts or altered perceptions we have) of anxiety are:

  • Thinking that you may lose control and/or go “mad”
  • Thinking that you might die
  • Thinking that you may have a heart attack/be sick/faint/have a brain tumour
  • Feeling that people are looking at you and observing your anxiety
  • Feeling as though things are speeding up/slowing down
  • Feeling detached from your environment and the people in it
  • Feeling like wanting to run away/escape from the situation
  • Feeling on edge and alert to everything around you

If you think this describes how you feel  don’t worry it can happen to the best of us.  There’s also no harm in booking an appointment with your doctor and going over your options. 

More resources:

If you’d like extra help try this resource its called panic away (cheesy I know) but they’re been around for years and have loads of science to back them up.  It gives you a number of tools you can use to combat panic attacks.  It’s easy to use and effective, if the above hasn’t helped give these guys a go!  It comes in a digital form and a hard copy form for those of us who still don’t truly rust technology!

If you fancy it Click Here!

These books from amazon are also good and well worth checking out!


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